[DE GYM #742] Fanta light

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 18:23 schreef fathank het volgende:
Aangezien Fanta weg is kun jij ook wel inrukken

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 19:34 schreef Sapstengel het volgende:
SEX / uren ongewenst hard, pfff

Haha lijkt me echt kut dat

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 19:44 schreef seto het volgende:
stijfje verbergen is heel makkelijk hoor, throwback

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 19:44 schreef seto het volgende:
stijfje verbergen is heel makkelijk hoor, throwback

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 20:13 schreef fathank het volgende:
Kaas zit je al aan de ketonen?
https://hansvdw1.wordpres(...)rgen-van-9-mei-2015/

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 20:27 schreef kaasplankje het volgende:

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te lang man heb je samenvatting?

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Op maandag 11 mei 2015 20:29 schreef fathank het volgende:

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Fietsen Sky ketonen nog harder fietsen.

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#1 The Bodybuilder Lacks Swag Factor
(and general social awareness/skills)

Introverted and a loner by nature, he began hitting the gym to look good in hopes of getting attention. What began as a psychologically healthful hobby turns into the perfect antisocial diversion.

Years pass...

His social skills stagnate, his ability to communicate with most women erodes and he becomes almost completely one-dimensional.
(extreme cases will go WEEKS without talking to girls, unless a female employee signs them in at the gym)

His answer to "What's new?" is always -

Not Much.

#2 The Bodybuilder Judges Himself Based on How His Body Looks That Day
(and is terrified of rejection)

Like girls have their "fat days", the Bodybuilder will have his psychologically devastating "small days".

His self-esteem is almost completely based on his appearance, which is ever-changing from anabolic bloat and usually loosely-defined fitness goals.

The bigger problem is -

The Bodybuilder thinks that EVERYONE ELSE is also judging him on his body.

The reality is - no one really cares if his arms aren't 18" that day or if his calves look small that day.

With the exception of other Bodybuilders, nobody even ****ing notices.

First Step Solution

Like Swag Factor, self perception and years of body dysmorphia has no quick fix.

I have two starter steps though -

ADMIT that girls prefer the athletic-but-not-too-big guy or "surfer boy" who has abs and a little muscle to the grotesque chemical monster with overgrown features and emotional problems. (see #18)
(fitness girls may prefer bodybuilder physiques)
ADMIT that you have anxiety about talking to women and that is the other primary reason that you are and will remain undersexed.

Those 2 realities are extremely difficult for the Bodybuilder to come to grips with.

#3 The 24/7 Bodybuilder Lifestyle Prevents a "Normal" Life, Social Development and Simply Having Fun

We've been over this already.

You get it - the lifestyle is antisocial.

Introverts gravitate to it.

#4 The Bodybuilder Has a Below-Average "Dating IQ"

This is another by-product of relative isolation and undeveloped Swag Factor.

Most Bodybuilders simply don't know "how it works" with women.

There's a lot of basic things that the Bodybuilder simply does not understand -

The Bodybuilder doesn't get why girls seemingly like "pussy ass guys" that aren't built.
(it's not the girls prefer "pussy ass guys", it's that non-gym rats often have better social skills, friends and simply talk to girls more often)

The Bodybuilder doesn't get why women (especially the most attractive ones) don't approach him.
(although girls may compliment the Bodybuilder and tell him that he's "huge", they won't initiate real conversations or give obvious invitations for sex unless he is good looking. It is simply not female nature to take the lead and "huge" guys are intimidating to most girls)

#5 The Bodybuilder Isn't Trying to Get Laid - He Just Wants to Be Liked
(seeking validation not pussy)

#6 Bodybuilders Generally Have Weak Dicks and Sexual Anxiety
(in relative proportions)

There's an inside joke among girls that Bodybuilders/Gym-Obsessed guys are attention whores with small dicks.
(steroids DO NOT shrink your dick, they can temporarily shrink your balls however)

While this isn't true (it might just proportionally appear that way), Bodybuilders obviously fall within the usual average, it is rare for a Bodybuilder to have a big dick.

While some Bodybuilders don't know that male enhancement actually works, many are simply too proud to exercise their dick.

It's beyond me why most aren't interested in this subject.

I'd suggest working your way up to at least 7 inches erect and at least 4.5 inches when flaccid, otherwise some girls will consider you small because IT WILL LOOK SMALL in comparison to your legs.

#7 The Bodybuilder Has Absolutely No Fashion Sense Whatsoever

Not only does the Bodybuilder wear stupid outdated clothing, but he generally wears clothing that is 2 or 3 sizes too small. For fear of feeling or looking "gay", this sub-culture has the hardest time accepting that fashion is kind of a big deal or doing anything that popular culture encourages.

#8 The Bodybuilder Has Weak Hair

There's very few anabolic Bodybuilders that are totally immune to hair loss. You will have to pick hair-friendly steroids if you are going to juice.

#9 The Bodybuilder Often Has Below-Average Skin/Complexion

Just as many juiced Bodybuilders are prone to hair loss from DHT, plenty also have issues with acne.

Left untreated for long periods of time, it can result in permanent scaring.
(this can be mostly fixed with expensive laser treatments or temporary concealers)

Also, heavy juicing makes you look older than you are.

#10 The Bodybuilder Often Looks Like **** In the Off-Season

if your #1 goal is to get pussy, being over 18-20% body fat will limit your options. Even if you are good looking.

If you care more about bodybuilding than girls (and don't have the silent agenda to get laid a lot) - by all means:

Do whatever your want.

#11 The Bodybuilder Doesn't Believe/Understand That His Body Type Isn't Ideal to Women

This infuriates non-competitive loner Bodybuilders that spend thousands of hours in the gym to better appeal to hot girls.

But it's true.

Girls, with the exception of fitness girls/female bodybuilders, prefer guys that are "lean with some muscle" to huge chemical-looking freaks.

Most undersexed Bodybuilders are compulsive liars living in absolute denial.

The biggest problem, however, is that they are never honest with themselves.

They simply won't admit the obsessive Bodybuilding life isn't getting them women.

If you talked to JUST ONE girl for every hour you spent in the gym, you would NEVER be without sex.

Build a good body and move on

Source is: http://www.goodlookinglos(...)e-bodybuilder-part-1