Ik ben t ergens er wel mee eens dat veel mensen die RSD lezen en volgen er een vreemde obsessie op nahouden... allereerst daarom dit bericht, over een van hun 'beste' instructeurs:
http://jezebel.com/598060(...)ses-women-on-okcupidIk zie ook dat het een nogal feministische site is, maar neemt niet weg dat wat er staat wel degelijk waar gebeurd is en gewoon te belachelijk voor woorden...
Verder nog dit dan, afkomstig van Love Systems, een concurrerend bedrijf (het is niet van het bedrijf zelf, maar van een van de users van het forum:
ey everyone, these are my notes on what I think about RSD. It is a collection of different posts I’ve found along the way, mixed with my own original ideas and insights. It’s a long read. Send this around and stop RSD! See them for who they really are!
RSD “paces and leads” your experience and what it will be like, before you have it. The problem is that they mix legitimate information while AT THE SAME TIME mixing in bullshit to make you dependent and to fear monger to your insecurities, then offering the solution, which of course is them.
“I say a lot of things and set many frames where it is very clear to them what they learned, and what their experience meant relative to other experiences that they'll have in the future.” - Tyler
RSD’s philosophy and genius plan is to condition people to associate them with greatness. Their concepts aren’t just to teach, they are weapons too.
Think about it. IF you look at any video you could say, he’s being in the moment and being self amusing. This allows people to drop their standards on instructors and gives RSD less work for more money. They are designing it this way. It is masterful conditioning. It’s the same with the terminology, think about the word chode, sure its means a guy who’s lame but you automatically associate RSD using that word. Everything associates RSD to superior and “You just don’t get the picture.”
“On the other hand, if we go about teaching universal principles as well as emotional states and being a dude with no ego this will directly connect his GOOD NIGHTS (we all have them), and the feelings you experience under those nights, to those concepts in which he will relate it to us and thereby make it appear like we got him into a whole different world just cause we put WORDS ON THESE CONCEPTS, while in reality he would have experienced them anyway. We will be perceived as gods in his eyes. At the same time, while having no cut clear structure for improvement to follow, he will experience tons of things which he will have no answer how to solve and therefore reach for his gods (us, muaha) to help him (this is the basic way the blueprint is structured. Tyler compares making lists and structures for reading and anything else as “egoic learning.” What he is preaching is being a guy with no ego for his own purposes to draw you in more and more with incomplete theories about everything.) He will be in a constant loop of education (which he feel like he MUST HAVE) from us and will have a really hard time to break free, thinking he must have all the knowledge needed.]” - Tyler
Subconscious message of: you can’t get girls until you know ALL of this stuff!
Tyler makes the road to success hard for his own purposes. He even admitted that success was easy and that it messed with his reality when it was easy. When you realize it is easy, it loses meaning and thus does not seem worthwhile, you put obstacles in your own way to feel satisfied.
Tyler tries to replace your psychology to get good with girls which is just ridiculous. How he sees things is based on his own experience, NOT YOURS.
“With RSD, you essentially have to change your whole psychology, you have to learn new concepts, a lot of concepts which you probably already know of if you have studied even a grain of salt of psychology or eastern philosophy or self help but with different names this time. You get the mindset you have to "change your whole personality" AKA deep identity level change, you think you have to be in a super good state all the time, so on and so forth.”
Because they gave me that one epiphany, I took everything they said as gospel.
I didn’t have a good male role model, so I looked online and got fucked up by people who take advantage of confusion. I’m not identifying as a victim, just stating facts.
Tyler can’t respect people surfing in Hawaii as having dignified lives, but yet he “achieves” and fucks people’s psychology over.
Calling it natural game when any normal person good with women would never go through the process of watching 20 DVDs and over thinking this shit. That is by definition unnatural.
Your mindset should be that anything you learn or read is meant to SUPPLEMENT who you are already, NOT REPLACE IT. If you try to REPLACE who you already are, that is going to lead down a long and dark road to misery, even if you do eventually get laid.
We overvalue new information we receive, no matter how trivial or meaningless it is, because it’s new and stimulates excitement and interest within us. We also get unnecessarily attached to drama and the pointless information that fuels it. We overestimate its value because we vicariously experience emotions through it.
It's as if Tyler broke his students and is now charging them to put themselves back together. This is the most cynical shit I've ever seen. (Cult tactics, unfreezing)
The whole notion behind self help — that someone of some undefined authority is now going to impart superior information onto me — in and of itself implies an arrogance of certainty: here’s what to value, here’s the measurement of success, here’s what to worship. Despite all of the best intentions, I think this sabotages a grand chunk of the industry. How can you help someone to take responsibility for their own thoughts and awareness by giving them the YOUR thoughts and awareness?
How does RSD manipulate your need for dopamine and stimulation? By using the rule of supply and demand to provide you with different points of view by different people which are stimulating and giving you conflicting information which causes anxiety and a need to “know it all” before you can accomplish your goals. Keeps you in a low state if you are not living up to their arbitrary standards and “way things should be” or “how you should be” so you look at them as authority figures to take you out of your low states. They get identified as being connected to a dopamine rush, they cause the problem (break your reality), and they provide the solution (taking on their reality, being like them, doing as they do, believing what they believe). This is all done subliminally to make them look like the good guys just trying to help, and so you are never consciously aware of what they are doing. This helps them generate a need while at the same time supplying the solution, as you get drawn further and further into them. It allows them to keep you coming back for more and to spend more money with them. It essentially creates a vacuous business.
It’s different to say that you never blamed anyone for making you feel like a victim. But when you purposely do it to your students and use mind manipulation techniques to get people hooked on your teachings because they aren’t good on their own merit, and then say that you “weren’t telling people what to think, that’s not your job”, it’s just bullshit. What was the blueprint about? It was 20 DVDs and it wasn’t about what to think? One thing it had nothing to do with was getting girls! Just mind manipulation to suck people in by confusing them. How can you say that your teachings are just “guys trying things out in the club” when you have a 20 DVD program supposedly talking about it?
The incongruence of acting layed back with a girl when you really study this shit day and night, and that’s all you do. It’s not how you really are at all.
RSD is for people who lack real world experience, and need to have reality dictated to them, because of fear and being unable to cope themselves.