We need to put this to rest once and for all - men are indisputably hornier than women, and in addition to being easily observable countless studies have proven it.
I am so sick of every time this gets brought up people rushing in with “bUt mY bOyFriEnD cAn’T kEeP uP WiTh mE” or men telling me “bro women want it way more” etc.
Your anecdotal experience, which is questionable to begin with and either embellished or completely fabricated 50% of the time does not outweigh science and millions of years of evolutionary biology. Libido is testosterone driven, which is why men (who have significantly more of this hormone) have such an insatiable appetite for sex.
Look at the amount of strip clubs, prostitutes, and porn geared toward men. It’s not even close. Look at all of the disgusting fetishes men have, and how they sexualize literally everything and find everything a woman does “hot” or sexy no matter how stupid it is. Look at how much most men struggle. Look at how many options most women have, look at how often most men get rejected. Look at how many women complain about “predatory” men, “creeps” and “perverts” who only want sex or bring up sex too early. Look at how many scandals and sexual harassment cases there are perpetrated by men. Look at how many wealthy, powerful men throw their lives away to bang some secretary, maid or bar rat.
There are exceptions to every rule, but as a whole it is clear as day. Why do you suppose people go to the ends of the earth to deny it? I don’t buy the social stigma of slut shaming with how cavalier and unabashedly women publicly flaunt their sexuality now on social media. Women’s sexual liberation is in full swing with artists like Cardi B, Nikki Minaj and even Swift being so candid with their promiscuity.
The other and possibly most common excuse is “women are horny they’re just much more selective” or “women are only horny for Chad.” Any sort of contingency immediately disqualifies them from being as horny as men, who have zero discretion and will happily fuck women of any level of attractiveness stone cold sober.
The only response anyone ever seems to have to this is how much “risk” women have to deal with. Pregnancy is almost a non issue with free birth control from planned parenthood. I can appreciate the apprehension they experience in meeting a stranger from the internet or walking to their car at night, but generally speaking what exactly is so dangerous about dating for women? The vast majority of men are OVERLY chivalrous and slovenly.
Even accounting for this inherent “risk” factor and apprehension, there is still an ENORMOUS disparity in the dating world and respective experiences of men and women and the struggles they face.
Let’s have a look at some basic facts:
Gay men have WAY more sex than lesbians
Trans men report enormous spikes in libido upon starting T supplementation
There are almost zero male prostitutes
The ratio of male-female strip clubs is astronomically disproportionate
https://medium.com/illumi(...)-gender-914a11be28be