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Je zou bijna denken dat door het lezen van comments op de frontpage iedereen een pedo is. Het bijna adoreren van pedofielen is zorgelijk mensen!
Klacht lijkt mij duidelijk.
Oh link:
Seksjuf vreest bajes: 'bang dat ze me verscheuren'

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:43 schreef wollah het volgende:
Op de FP komen

Het is zodat mijn vertrouwen in de mensheid weer zijn normale vormen krijgt zodra ik lees wat mensen denken/schrijven.

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:45 schreef Rose_Red het volgende:
Die 13jarige heeft waarschijnlijk de tijd van zijn leven gehad met haar.

Nee.

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:49 schreef Rose_Red het volgende:

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Waar staat dat?

Elke journal mbt kindermisbruik.
Je denkt dit wel omdat je dit als een volwassene ziet/ervaart.
Een 13 jarige is verre van ontwikkeld om zo'n relatie aan te kunnen gaan met iemand die meer macht heeft.

Het ligt dus niet alleen aan frontpage. Pedo's zitten hier ook

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:50 schreef CrashO het volgende:

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Ik kan me de trauma's al voorstellen van de arme jongen die hierop mocht kruipen

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It's disturbing to think about what it means to a boy when he's sexually abused by someone he trusts. Uncomfortable as we feel, however, we must either talk about the reality of his experience or continue to live in silence, with devastating consequences.

Abusers use their age or authority to satisfy their own needs without regard to those of their victims. Seemingly unbreakable bonds are broken when treachery is introduced into these relationships. Consequently, many sexually abused boys grow up distrustful, considering people dishonest, malevolent, and undependable. They often become frightened of emotional connection and isolate themselves. This may alternate with merging with loved ones so they hardly know where they end and others begin.

Confusing affection with abuse, desire with tenderness, sexually abused boys often become men who have difficulty distinguishing among sex, love, nurturance, affection, and abuse. They may experience friendly interpersonal approaches as seductive and manipulative. On the other hand, they may not notice when exploitative demands are made on them - they've learned to see these as normal and acceptable.

Believing sexual closeness is the way to feel loved but experiencing love as abuse, some of these men solve their dilemma by engaging in frequent, indiscriminate, and compulsive sexual encounters. These are not free, joyous expressions of erotic passion. Sex is pursued incessantly, but with little chance for intimacy. Although strongly desiring love, these men have no sense of feeling loved once the sex act is concluded. They're left feeling empty and lonely, while the idea of fully pursuing relationships fills them with dread. Many believe sexually abused boys almost inevitably become sexually abusive men. But, while a significant proportion of male abusers were victims themselves, there's evidence that relatively few sexually abused boys actually become abusers. Because of the myth, however, many men fear they'll become abusive or worry that if they disclose their history, others will consider them predators.

Sexually abused boys are also troubled if they were aroused while being abused. Teenagers are easily aroused, having little control over the hormones surging through their bodies. But if they're stimulated by aspects of their experience, they may feel they participated in or even invited the abuse. This confuses a boy who also knows he was also repelled by the experience. Feeling guilty about any sexual pleasure he felt during his molestation, he may become ambivalent about all sexual pleasure.

Also, masculine gender expectations teach boys they can't be victims. Boys are supposed to be competitive, resilient, self-reliant, and independent, but certainly not emotionally needy. "Real" men initiate sexual activity and want sex whenever it's offered, especially by women. For many men, these qualities define masculinity.

As a result, boys may not even recognize their sexual victimization. They may assert that they weren't abused, weren't hurt, or were in charge of what happened. For them, acknowledging victimization means admitting they're weak or "not male."

Finally, when the abuser is male (and even sometimes when she is female), many boys - whether straight or gay - develop fears and concerns about sexual orientation. Conventional wisdom says sexual abuse turns boys gay, although there's no persuasive evidence that premature sexual activity fundamentally changes sexual orientation. Nevertheless, a heterosexual boy is likely to doubt himself, wondering why he was chosen by a man for sex. A homosexual boy may feel rushed into considering himself gay, or may hate his homosexuality because he believes it was caused by his abuse. Whether boys are gay or straight, these manipulative introductions to sexuality can set lifetime patterns of exploitation and self-destructive behavior.

These aftereffects are ugly. They're not only painful for victims but also costly to our society. Boys who grow up without coming to terms with their childhood abuse often struggle as men with addictions, anxiety, depression, and thoughts of suicide as well as the inability to develop or maintain relationships.

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:54 schreef scrupuleus het volgende:
Hoe oud is de ts?

Oud genoeg.

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 11:54 schreef Rose_Red het volgende:

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Ik bedoelde eigenlijk waar staat dat de jongeman in kwestie zelf zegt dat hij hier een trauma aan over heeft gehouden?
Als ik de lerares zo zie denk ik eigenlijk meer aan een mooie jeugdherinnering.

Het gaat er niet om wat een kind zegt. Je noemt hem een jongeman, dat heb je zo verkeerd. Iemand die 13 jaar is, is maar een kind.

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Op zaterdag 16 februari 2019 12:06 schreef JeMoeder het volgende:
Ok TS, mooi voor je.

Je moeder