R&P Relaties & Psychologie
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Hello everyone 
,
I recently came to know about this forum and just thought of asking some advice here.
Your advice/views/suggestions would help me in taking the most important decision of my life.
And I will be very thankful for you guys if you can post your practical and sincere views here.
First of all a little bit about myself. I am an Indian and from an educated and respectable family. My last name says my grandfathers were of ruling class of the society. My dad is an advocate in India and my mother expired when I was 3 years old. So its my dad and me and two brothers. its my family. I have been living in Netherlands for about 6 years now. Its been a long time away from my home country and my parents and family. I am a well paid IT professional here. I like the job and this place and people here and will be living here forever I guess. My life is in pretty good shape at the moment. I have all I need except one thing. its marriage time!!
Time to find a girl and get settled in my life.
Lately, I have been thinking of two things; marry an Indian woman? or marry a Dutch woman?.
I can ask my dad to find a good woman from a good family in India and then marry the woman and then bring her here as my wife. But I am not comfortable with this idea. I am already someone who is living away from his parents and family. I do not want to add another one to me here who would be again living like me..away from parents and family. In these six years apart from office friends I really do not have any real connections/real relations outside in the society. I miss it and I do not want to build a family with kids living like this, without real relations around the family in the society here. Imagine, if I marry an Indian woman and bring her here as my wife, we would be a couple living alone in this country without any real relations in the society here. And then if we have kids after sometime, those kids will be again living like us, missing all the fun of being in company with grand parents and uncles and aunts. I am just trying to avoid this in my life. Easy choice is to move to India and get settled there. Then my professional aspirations will get screwed up. I can not do that.
So I am thinking of marrying a Dutch woman who has a good family here. So that I can be part of that family and have some real relations in the society. And I personally find them attractive and I do not have any problem marrying a woman of different culture. I am an atheist and never visited any religious place in my life. Humanity is my religion.
For a small snapshot of my mind, the below are my words written sometime back in my free time:
"It took ages, some 2,00,000 years, for humans to explore the entire world, to discover all the human races, cultures and religions. I feel it would not take more than even 1000 years for this world to get united and live under a single democratic multinational supreme federal government. It is only a matter of time, few more years in the future, to see such a peaceful, boundary-less, war-less, beautiful world filled with sense of respect and equality."
My heart is open enough to believe in the above words.
I believe I can find a good Dutch woman to marry and build a good family here.
I need some advice here. I hear a lot of stereotypes of Dutch women. Like, Dutch women marry several times in their life time, Dutch women can not be good wives/mothers and all etc. I personally do not believe these things. I believe there are good Dutch women out there who are good wives to their husbands and good mothers to their children. But as I am not a Dutch guy I welcome your opinions here.
One more thing I want to know is, can a Dutch woman accept an Indian as husband if she likes him?
Well I know it depends on the person, but I just want to know how open the Dutch women are? I met many Dutch women here. They are all good. But I only know them from outside. Who knows what is inside? I welcome views of Dutch women here. I agree the fact that discrimination exists in every part of the world. But there are always good people out there who do not discriminate. I just want to know what are my chances here finding such good women. I just want to have a general picture of your views here. You can discriminate me here if you like it. I welcome it too. it will also be useful to me in taking my decision.
. But before you discriminate Indians please give a thought once...India is in this state because of 200 years of robbery done by British 
...
Also please give me some tips on how a typical match searching process goes in this country. if someone wants to marry what/how do they do to find partners here?.
Thanking all of you in advance for your views...
, I recently came to know about this forum and just thought of asking some advice here.
Your advice/views/suggestions would help me in taking the most important decision of my life.
And I will be very thankful for you guys if you can post your practical and sincere views here.
First of all a little bit about myself. I am an Indian and from an educated and respectable family. My last name says my grandfathers were of ruling class of the society. My dad is an advocate in India and my mother expired when I was 3 years old. So its my dad and me and two brothers. its my family. I have been living in Netherlands for about 6 years now. Its been a long time away from my home country and my parents and family. I am a well paid IT professional here. I like the job and this place and people here and will be living here forever I guess. My life is in pretty good shape at the moment. I have all I need except one thing. its marriage time!!
Time to find a girl and get settled in my life.
Lately, I have been thinking of two things; marry an Indian woman? or marry a Dutch woman?.
I can ask my dad to find a good woman from a good family in India and then marry the woman and then bring her here as my wife. But I am not comfortable with this idea. I am already someone who is living away from his parents and family. I do not want to add another one to me here who would be again living like me..away from parents and family. In these six years apart from office friends I really do not have any real connections/real relations outside in the society. I miss it and I do not want to build a family with kids living like this, without real relations around the family in the society here. Imagine, if I marry an Indian woman and bring her here as my wife, we would be a couple living alone in this country without any real relations in the society here. And then if we have kids after sometime, those kids will be again living like us, missing all the fun of being in company with grand parents and uncles and aunts. I am just trying to avoid this in my life. Easy choice is to move to India and get settled there. Then my professional aspirations will get screwed up. I can not do that.
So I am thinking of marrying a Dutch woman who has a good family here. So that I can be part of that family and have some real relations in the society. And I personally find them attractive and I do not have any problem marrying a woman of different culture. I am an atheist and never visited any religious place in my life. Humanity is my religion.
For a small snapshot of my mind, the below are my words written sometime back in my free time:
"It took ages, some 2,00,000 years, for humans to explore the entire world, to discover all the human races, cultures and religions. I feel it would not take more than even 1000 years for this world to get united and live under a single democratic multinational supreme federal government. It is only a matter of time, few more years in the future, to see such a peaceful, boundary-less, war-less, beautiful world filled with sense of respect and equality."
My heart is open enough to believe in the above words.
I believe I can find a good Dutch woman to marry and build a good family here.
I need some advice here. I hear a lot of stereotypes of Dutch women. Like, Dutch women marry several times in their life time, Dutch women can not be good wives/mothers and all etc. I personally do not believe these things. I believe there are good Dutch women out there who are good wives to their husbands and good mothers to their children. But as I am not a Dutch guy I welcome your opinions here.
One more thing I want to know is, can a Dutch woman accept an Indian as husband if she likes him?
Well I know it depends on the person, but I just want to know how open the Dutch women are? I met many Dutch women here. They are all good. But I only know them from outside. Who knows what is inside? I welcome views of Dutch women here. I agree the fact that discrimination exists in every part of the world. But there are always good people out there who do not discriminate. I just want to know what are my chances here finding such good women. I just want to have a general picture of your views here. You can discriminate me here if you like it. I welcome it too. it will also be useful to me in taking my decision.
. But before you discriminate Indians please give a thought once...India is in this state because of 200 years of robbery done by British ...Also please give me some tips on how a typical match searching process goes in this country. if someone wants to marry what/how do they do to find partners here?.
Thanking all of you in advance for your views...
It really differs per woman at who you can apply those stereotypical thoughts to. It's like thinking that every Indian woman only wants to marry "white people" for money only instead of the relationship itself. Besides, what is in your view the stereotype of a Dutch woman (except for those that has been told to you)?
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wie ben jij? en waar is o.us 1.0?quote:Op donderdag 29 november 2012 22:18 schreef o.us2.0 het volgende:
It really differs per woman at who you can apply those stereotypical thoughts to. It's like thinking that every Indian woman only wants to marry "white people" for money only instead of the relationship itself. Besides, what is in your view the stereotype of a Dutch woman (except for those that has been told to you)?
Heulie-meulie, wat lees ik nu.
Een Indische IT'er. Op een Engelse site was dat tenminste nog een leuk grapje geweest.
Een Indische IT'er. Op een Engelse site was dat tenminste nog een leuk grapje geweest.
For me, Dutch woman are friendly, independent, and bold. I like these characteristics.quote:
It really differs per woman at who you can apply those stereotypical thoughts to. It's like thinking that every Indian woman only wants to marry "white people" for money only instead of the relationship itself. Besides, what is in your view the stereotype of a Dutch woman (except for those that has been told to you)?
its women...quote:Op donderdag 29 november 2012 22:49 schreef rockyheadd het volgende:
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For me, Dutch woman are friendly, independent, and bold. I like these characteristics.
You know there is a largue number of Hindus with those Dutch characteristics living here? They're not Indian but most of them are from Surinam and have generally almost the same lifestyle as you have. It's at least something.quote:
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For me, Dutch woman are friendly, independent, and bold. I like these characteristics.
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Point accepted. This is also an open option to me. But as far as I find there are very few of them who are doing respectable jobs here in this country. or whose families are educated. I suppose its very hard to find one in that very small group of a small group...quote:
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You know there is a largue number of Hindus with those Dutch characteristics living here? They're not Indian but most of them are from Surinam and have generally almost the same lifestyle as you have. It's at least something.
A gentle request to everyone here...Please do not make fun of this thread.
For me relationship is not a joke. it is one time in life.
For me relationship is not a joke. it is one time in life.
Are you aware of the big cultural differences that will probably there if you have a relationship with a dutch woman?
Dutch women will not typically be the respectfull, silent housewife (in general). If you expect a woman that will fit in a more traditional (indian) role, it might become difficult. If you are open for her wishes and wya of life, good luck and have fun.
If I see what you say about having an educated family; typically not a dutch way of finding a partner. Maybe you should try and get more contact with dutch people, learn the language, go to a club to get to know others. My guess is that your views of what you will find in a dutch woman will not be met easily.
Dutch women will not typically be the respectfull, silent housewife (in general). If you expect a woman that will fit in a more traditional (indian) role, it might become difficult. If you are open for her wishes and wya of life, good luck and have fun.
If I see what you say about having an educated family; typically not a dutch way of finding a partner. Maybe you should try and get more contact with dutch people, learn the language, go to a club to get to know others. My guess is that your views of what you will find in a dutch woman will not be met easily.
Whatever...
Most of The hindu's from/in Surinam have respectable jobs. Many of them are business owners or landowners.quote:
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Point accepted. This is also an open option to me. But as far as I find there are very few of them who are doing respectable jobs here in this country. or whose families are educated. I suppose its very hard to find one in that very small group of a small group...
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Ik schrijf deze reactie expres in het Nederlands. Per slot van rekening woon en werk je hier nu al 6 jaar, en ben je nu voornemens een Nederlandse vrouw te gaan huwen en hier een gezinsleven op te willen bouwen. Geheel naar jouw eigen keuze.quote:Op donderdag 29 november 2012 22:11 schreef rockyheadd het volgende:
Hello everyone
I recently came to know about this forum and just thought of asking some advice here.
Your advice/views/suggestions would help me in taking the most important decision of my life.
And I will be very thankful for you guys if you can post your practical and sincere views here.
First of all a little bit about myself. I am an Indian and from an educated and respectable family. My last name says my grandfathers were of ruling class of the society. My dad is an advocate in India and my mother expired when I was 3 years old. So its my dad and me and two brothers. its my family. I have been living in Netherlands for about 6 years now. Its been a long time away from my home country and my parents and family. I am a well paid IT professional here. I like the job and this place and people here and will be living here forever I guess. My life is in pretty good shape at the moment. I have all I need except one thing. its marriage time!!
Time to find a girl and get settled in my life.
Lately, I have been thinking of two things; marry an Indian woman? or marry a Dutch woman?.
I can ask my dad to find a good woman from a good family in India and then marry the woman and then bring her here as my wife. But I am not comfortable with this idea. I am already someone who is living away from his parents and family. I do not want to add another one to me here who would be again living like me..away from parents and family. In these six years apart from office friends I really do not have any real connections/real relations outside in the society. I miss it and I do not want to build a family with kids living like this, without real relations around the family in the society here. Imagine, if I marry an Indian woman and bring her here as my wife, we would be a couple living alone in this country without any real relations in the society here. And then if we have kids after sometime, those kids will be again living like us, missing all the fun of being in company with grand parents and uncles and aunts. I am just trying to avoid this in my life. Easy choice is to move to India and get settled there. Then my professional aspirations will get screwed up. I can not do that.
So I am thinking of marrying a Dutch woman who has a good family here. So that I can be part of that family and have some real relations in the society. And I personally find them attractive and I do not have any problem marrying a woman of different culture. I am an atheist and never visited any religious place in my life. Humanity is my religion.
For a small snapshot of my mind, the below are my words written sometime back in my free time:
"It took ages, some 2,00,000 years, for humans to explore the entire world, to discover all the human races, cultures and religions. I feel it would not take more than even 1000 years for this world to get united and live under a single democratic multinational supreme federal government. It is only a matter of time, few more years in the future, to see such a peaceful, boundary-less, war-less, beautiful world filled with sense of respect and equality."
My heart is open enough to believe in the above words.
I believe I can find a good Dutch woman to marry and build a good family here.
I need some advice here. I hear a lot of stereotypes of Dutch women. Like, Dutch women marry several times in their life time, Dutch women can not be good wives/mothers and all etc. I personally do not believe these things. I believe there are good Dutch women out there who are good wives to their husbands and good mothers to their children. But as I am not a Dutch guy I welcome your opinions here.
One more thing I want to know is, can a Dutch woman accept an Indian as husband if she likes him?
Well I know it depends on the person, but I just want to know how open the Dutch women are? I met many Dutch women here. They are all good. But I only know them from outside. Who knows what is inside? I welcome views of Dutch women here. I agree the fact that discrimination exists in every part of the world. But there are always good people out there who do not discriminate. I just want to know what are my chances here finding such good women. I just want to have a general picture of your views here. You can discriminate me here if you like it. I welcome it too. it will also be useful to me in taking my decision.
Also please give me some tips on how a typical match searching process goes in this country. if someone wants to marry what/how do they do to find partners here?.
Thanking all of you in advance for your views...
Als je werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van de Nederlandse maatschappij, inclusief een Nederlandse vrouw en haar familie waarin je opgenomen zou willen worden, dan lijkt mij de eerste en belangrijkste stap daarin te zijn dat je ook de Nederlanse taal leert spreken en schrijven. Iedere relatie valt of staat met de communicatie binnen die relatie. Taal is dus heel belangrijk!
Cultureel lijkt me een relatie met een Nederlandse vrouw geen probleem te moeten zijn. In het algemeen staan Nederlanders best open voor andere culturen. Al verwachten ze andersom vaak diezelfde openheid, en aanpassingsvermogen.
Als je hier werkelijk je verdere leven wilt gaan opbouwen, ga er dan ook werkelijk voor. Beginnend met een studie om de taal te leren spreken, want dat maakt het leven hier zoveel aangenamer. En het vergroot je kansen om een geschikte partner te vinden.
Succes!
Lijkt me een goed idee, eerst de taal lerenquote:
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Ik schrijf deze reactie expres in het Nederlands. Per slot van rekening woon en werk je hier nu al 6 jaar, en ben je nu voornemens een Nederlandse vrouw te gaan huwen en hier een gezinsleven op te willen bouwen. Geheel naar jouw eigen keuze.
Als je werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van de Nederlandse maatschappij, inclusief een Nederlandse vrouw en haar familie waarin je opgenomen zou willen worden, dan lijkt mij de eerste en belangrijkste stap daarin te zijn dat je ook de Nederlanse taal leert spreken en schrijven. Iedere relatie valt of staat met de communicatie binnen die relatie. Taal is dus heel belangrijk!
Cultureel lijkt me een relatie met een Nederlandse vrouw geen probleem te moeten zijn. In het agemeen staan Nederlanders best open voor andere culturen. Al verwachten ze andersom vaak diezelfde openheid, en aanpassingsvermogen.
Als je hier werkelijk je verdere leven wilt gaan opbouwen, ga er dan ook werkelijk voor. Beginnend met een studie om de taal te leren spreken, want dat maakt het leven hier zoveel aangenamer. En het vergroot je kansen om een geschikte partner te vinden.
Succes!
I do not have any problems with the cultural differences. I am pretty much like an empty cup myself. I do not care it....India is one country that is fast being westernized...and Indian women are not traditional and silent anymorequote:
Are you aware of the big cultural differences that will probably there if you have a relationship with a dutch woman?
Dutch women will not typically be the respectfull, silent housewife (in general). If you expect a woman that will fit in a more traditional (indian) role, it might become difficult. If you are open for her wishes and wya of life, good luck and have fun.
If I see what you say about having an educated family; typically not a dutch way of finding a partner. Maybe you should try and get more contact with dutch people, learn the language, go to a club to get to know others. My guess is that your views of what you will find in a dutch woman will not be met easily.
...it is impossible even in India to find traditional women...And I am also not expecting my wife to be silent and traditional....I just expect honesty and faithfulness....
A quite important question if you really are willing to share your whole life with a Dutch woman; do you have any notable struggle in developing your Dutch language skills?quote:
A gentle request to everyone here...Please do not make fun of this thread.
For me relationship is not a joke. it is one time in life.
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You're probably a hairy bastard so no, dutch women won't be interested.
Hoi, ik ben een lamzak met een passie voor flessen wasverzachter.
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Nah.. die heb je nog welquote:
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I do not have any problems with the cultural differences. I am pretty much like an empty cup myself. I do not care it....India is one country that is fast being westernized...and Indian women are not traditional and silent anymore
een silent woman wordt een beetje difficult enzo
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You're probably a hairy bastard so no, dutch women won't be interested.
Dat is te erg!quote:
You're probably a hairy bastard so no, dutch women won't be interested.
Respect please...quote:
You're probably a hairy bastard so no, dutch women won't be interested.
Not respect, you need a trimmer and some shaving cream.quote:
Hoi, ik ben een lamzak met een passie voor flessen wasverzachter.
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Nou jah,,, het is wel een jankzakquote:
hopelijk kan de vertaalmachine datwoord aan
One more thing I want to know is, can a Dutch woman accept an Indian as husband if she likes him?
Well I know it depends on the person, but I just want to know how open the Dutch women are? I met many Dutch women here. They are all good. But I only know them from outside. Who knows what is inside? I welcome views of Dutch women here. I agree the fact that discrimination exists in every part of the world. But there are always good people out there who do not discriminate. I just want to know what are my chances here finding such good women. I just want to have a general picture of your views here. You can discriminate me here if you like it. I welcome it too. it will also be useful to me in taking my decision. . But before you discriminate Indians please give a thought once...India is in this state because of 200 years of robbery done by British ...
Zijn wij daarom verplicht een vrouw voor hem te zoeken?
Laat ie lekker zelluf zoeken
I already started learning the language. And I wont stop it. But I can only develop it slowly...I should have started it earlier...quote:
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Ik schrijf deze reactie expres in het Nederlands. Per slot van rekening woon en werk je hier nu al 6 jaar, en ben je nu voornemens een Nederlandse vrouw te gaan huwen en hier een gezinsleven op te willen bouwen. Geheel naar jouw eigen keuze.
Als je werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van de Nederlandse maatschappij, inclusief een Nederlandse vrouw en haar familie waarin je opgenomen zou willen worden, dan lijkt mij de eerste en belangrijkste stap daarin te zijn dat je ook de Nederlanse taal leert spreken en schrijven. Iedere relatie valt of staat met de communicatie binnen die relatie. Taal is dus heel belangrijk!
Cultureel lijkt me een relatie met een Nederlandse vrouw geen probleem te moeten zijn. In het algemeen staan Nederlanders best open voor andere culturen. Al verwachten ze andersom vaak diezelfde openheid, en aanpassingsvermogen.
Als je hier werkelijk je verdere leven wilt gaan opbouwen, ga er dan ook werkelijk voor. Beginnend met een studie om de taal te leren spreken, want dat maakt het leven hier zoveel aangenamer. En het vergroot je kansen om een geschikte partner te vinden.
Succes!
da's een goed begin.quote:
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I already started learning the language. And I wont stop it. But I can only develop it slowly...I should have started it earlier...
Alsof de meeste Nederlandse vrouwen niet overbehaard zijn en geen Engels spreken.quote:
You're probably a hairy bastard so no, dutch women won't be interested.
Wat een gezeur zeg.
Who the fuck can sleep with all this shit going on?
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Alsof de meeste Nederlandse vrouwen niet overbehaard zijn en geen Engels spreken.
Wat een gezeur zeg.
He, laten we je moeder er buiten houden.quote:
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Alsof de meeste Nederlandse vrouwen niet overbehaard zijn en geen Engels spreken.
Wat een gezeur zeg.
Hoi, ik ben een lamzak met een passie voor flessen wasverzachter.
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
okequote:
Ohh my god...please stop...please.....please...please....
Jij bewijst mijn puntquote:
Je spreekt Engels, bent niet bang te bekennen dat je overbehaard bent en je rookt blijkbaar ook nog
Ik zou het lekker bij een Bollywoodmevrouwtje uit een goede familie houden als ik hem was.
Who the fuck can sleep with all this shit going on?
Ja ach, zo slecht heeft India het niet, hoor. Ze hebben een welvarende industrie in RVS, Bollywood... Er is genoeg kapitaal in dat land, maar het verschil tussen armoede en rijkdom is daar groot.quote:
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Nou jah,,, het is wel een jankzak
woord aan
One more thing I want to know is, can a Dutch woman accept an Indian as husband if she likes him?
Well I know it depends on the person, but I just want to know how open the Dutch women are? I met many Dutch women here. They are all good. But I only know them from outside. Who knows what is inside? I welcome views of Dutch women here. I agree the fact that discrimination exists in every part of the world. But there are always good people out there who do not discriminate. I just want to know what are my chances here finding such good women. I just want to have a general picture of your views here. You can discriminate me here if you like it. I welcome it too. it will also be useful to me in taking my decision. . But before you discriminate Indians please give a thought once...India is in this state because of 200 years of robbery done by British ...
Zijn wij daarom verplicht een vrouw voor hem te zoeken?
Laat ie lekker zelluf zoeken
Heel anders is het in hun buurland Nepal. Daar is het pas écht armoede, iedereen heeft daar gewoon niks. Maar daar klagen ze er dan ook weer niet over.
India was een kolonie van Engeland, net zoals Indonesié en Suriname dat van ons waren. En dat zie je ook terug in onze culturen. In Engeland is iedere woensdag currydag (zoals wij maandag gehaktdag hebben). Vele Indiase gerechten zijn daar gewoon ingeburgerd geraakt, net als veel Indische gerechten hier ingeburgerd zijn geraakt (Veel mensen denken bijvoorbeeld dat stampot rauw andijvie een typisch Nederlands gerecht is, niets is minder waar... het is een Indisch gerecht).
Hoe dan ook, als je hier je toekomstige leven wilt gaan opbouwen en ook werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van onze maatschappij, dan lijkt het me op de eerste plaats een vereiste de taal te leren spreken en schrijven. Daarna, is er van alles mogelijk.
Ik ook om eerlijk te zijnquote:
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Jij bewijst mijn punt
Je spreekt Engels, bent niet bang te bekennen dat je overbehaard bent en je rookt blijkbaar ook nog
Ik zou het lekker bij een Bollywoodmevrouwtje uit een goede familie houden als ik hem was.
en indiaanse mannen zijn ook mooi
quote:
I recently came to know about this forum and just thought of asking some advice here.
Your advice/views/suggestions would help me in taking the most important decision of my life.
And I will be very thankful for you guys if you can post your practical and sincere views here.
Je zou eens een wilde gok moeten wagen, en proberen in het Nederlands te antwoorden?quote:
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I already started learning the language. And I wont stop it. But I can only develop it slowly...I should have started it earlier...
Daar leer je het meest van.
ja oke denk het ook welquote:
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Ja ach, zo slecht heeft India het niet, hoor. Ze hebben een welvarende industrie in RVS, Bollywood... Er is genoeg kapitaal in dat land, maar het verschil tussen armoede en rijkdom is daar groot.
Heel anders is het in hun buurland Nepal. Daar is het pas écht armoede, iedereen heeft daar gewoon niks. Maar daar klagen ze er dan ook weer niet over.
India was een kolonie van Engeland, net zoals Indonesié en Suriname dat van ons waren. En dat zie je ook terug in onze culturen. In Engeland is iedere woensdag currydag (zoals wij maandag gehaktdag hebben). Vele Indiase gerechten zijn daar gewoon ingeburgerd geraakt, net als veel Indische gerechten hier ingeburgerd zijn geraakt (Veel mensen denken bijvoorbeeld dat stampot rauw andijvie een typisch Nederlands gerecht is, niets is minder waar... het is een Indisch gerecht).
Hoe dan ook, als je hier je toekomstige leven wilt gaan opbouwen en ook werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van onze maatschappij, dan lijkt het me op de eerste plaats een vereiste de taal te leren spreken en schrijven. Daarna, is er van alles mogelijk.
Je bent echt aan het zeuren.quote:
Hoe dan ook, als je hier je toekomstige leven wilt gaan opbouwen en ook werkelijk deel wilt gaan uitmaken van onze maatschappij, dan lijkt het me op de eerste plaats een vereiste de taal te leren spreken en schrijven. Daarna, is er van alles mogelijk.
Het kan helpen ja, maar het is absoluut niet nodig.
Who the fuck can sleep with all this shit going on?
Indiaanse mannen wonen aan de andere kant van de wereld van Indiase mannenquote:Op vrijdag 30 november 2012 00:00 schreef FANNvanhetlaatsteuur het volgende:
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Ik ook om eerlijk te zijn
en indiaanse mannen zijn ook mooi
Lekker samen Bollywood-dansen op de camping in Appelscha!quote:
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Je zou eens een wilde gok moeten wagen, en proberen in het Nederlands te antwoorden?
Leuk als het lukt om na een tijdje Nederlands te spreken, een must?
Absoluut niet.
Who the fuck can sleep with all this shit going on?
Getuige je moeder.quote:
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Je bent echt aan het zeuren.
Het kan helpen ja, maar het is absoluut niet nodig.
Hoi, ik ben een lamzak met een passie voor flessen wasverzachter.
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Neuk mijn oor en noem me Harry Mulisch
Ga je nu beweren dat je het zonder de taal wel redt hier?quote:
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Je bent echt aan het zeuren.
Het kan helpen ja, maar het is absoluut niet nodig.
Want in een relatie is communicatie van ondergeschikt belang?quote:
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Je bent echt aan het zeuren.
Het kan helpen ja, maar het is absoluut niet nodig.
