Hoe bedoel je intimiderend?
Die van mij is volgensmij ook heel lief
Hele warme zachte stem. Dan voelt het alsof ik slecht bezig ben ofzo. Bang dat ik haar eigenlijk alleen voor de seks wil ofzo. Wil wel echt iemand goed leren kennen en band hebben. Maar ik moet er maar gewoon voorgaan en achter komen. Only way to do it
Mooi stuk van forum:
There is a reason our minds create blind spots. We don't see what we are not ready to deal with. It's the same thing when you talk about the pu community and it's ideas to a random dude and it just doesn't register and he immediately changes the topic after you finish your last sentence. Somethings are better kept outside of our reality for our own sanity. We don't want our concept of reality to be shaken too severely, especially not when it will result in us having to face up too difficult challenges.
Thinking that 'fate' and being nice to girls will solve your social problems is easy. Thinking that everyone deserves a little treat once in a while (in terms of tasty foods) is easy. Sitting behind a tv or videogame and having it take responsibility for your experience is easy. Thinking that it's normal and healthy to watch porn and masterbate is easy. Taking a painkiller when you feel a little sick/pain is easy. Agreeing with another person when he/she is lying to him/herself is easy, approval-seeking is easy.
Admitting addiction, quitting stuff that's fucking up your life, sitting thru the low's and disciplining yourself to eat healthy, rest properly, take right action, educate yourself and be authentic with people; somewhat more challenging...