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Pregnant 3 months after C Section!!

As the title says I am pregnant 3 months after giving birth to my little boy by Elective C Section due to him being breech.
It's still early days I am only 4 weeks pregnant so I know there is a long way to go but I just wanted to know will I be offered another section for this baby?
I know there is a risk of placenta rupture getting pregnant so soon but what are the chances of that actually happening!
Will I be monitored more closely throughout this pregnancy?
Is there anything I can do to minimise any complications?

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Horrible neighbours
Apr 14th, 2014, 19:30 PM Report Post #1

Just looking for some advise. We moved into our house almost 3 years ago (renting). We love our house and couldn't wish for a nicer landlord. My mum only lives round the corner so I'm close to her and the family's living either side of us are lovely.
Thing is last year a woman moved in down the street, and her children are so bold. They run riot all the time. Playing knock door run when LO is in bed. She's not the type to complain to. She is usually to stoned to care and her friends that she has round are no better. Her current boyfriend was fighting in the street today!!
I am dreading the summer and her drinking parties in her front garden ... I don't want to have to move. Is there anything I can do or who can I complain to? Not sure if she is renting privately or not. I loved it here till she moved in now I feel I have no peace.

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Angry

i have been dumped at 8 weeks and now on my 9th week and really hard.

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i'm going to keep my baby have tried so hard to get this far. we finally got what we wanted and leaves

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I'm due in February and is my 1st pregnancy.
I met the ftb whilst travelling 3 years ago and we've moved back to the uk where we both found it difficult to get back to the humdrum of life and not travelling anymore.
we made a joint decision to move in together and moving towards creating a family and marriage.
I was on the depo injection whilst travelling and came off it with the intention and he was aware of this obviously of this and things were looking great. I had complications coming off the depo and after seeing a specialist my periods re-started.
I'm now pregnant, but the ftb has decided he wants to go travelling again with his mates and I don't want to go with him obviously, but he says I'm holding him back and changed his mind about the situation and left me.
I'm devastated after all we've gone through to get to this stage and the future I thought we had together.
I need to make a decision, but I'm so emotional at the moment about giving him the go ahead to travel and enjoy himself whilst he still can, luckily I'm financially ok for him to do this and working for now or if he's like this now leave things as they are. I don't want to seem desperate and beg him to come back.

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Leaving OH, possibly for good...what rights do we each have?
Jul 12th, 2014, 11:45 AM Report Post #1

I think I'm just at the end of my tether with OH.

I've started packing things to stay with my mum for the night, he got up from bed (yes at 11:30am....) and said he's going to his mums for a few days. I think purely so he can say he left me.

But what rights do we both have? I'm only on SMP at the moment, he's previously said he'd take full custody of our child if we broke up, as he earns more money than me. But can that really happen? I take care of her all on my own everyday and I've never done anything to hurt or harm her for the future. Can I lose her?

What rights would he have if we do split for good? Obviously, I want her to have a relationship with him, (basically the whole argument is that he doesn't spend time with her, prefer to play on his PC after work)

Just looking for real information as I don't know where I stand. I couldn't bare to not have her.

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