FOK!forum / Relaties & Psychologie / Chat relation
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:17
Hi all,

sorry this is in English.

My girlfriend is never chatting (MSN or GameChatsites) when im home.
But when im gone for a day or 2 for work, she is always chatting with other guys, and it is kind of flirting what she does.

How do i deal with this, do i just let it be, because it is a normal thing?
Do i tell her to stop the flirting part???
I dont know how far the flirting part goes, but when i bring the subject up, she is getting mad and avoid the subject.

when i am home she is never on MSN or gamechats
Rammstinovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:25
I weetniet why she dat doet. Maybe jij fuckt her niet zo best. En she is looking for iemand anders.
You better need to neem a kijkje op www.hoehetmoet.nl
shmoopyvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:28
Hoe weet jij met wie ze chat en dat het flirterig is?
En waarom is dit in Ingliesj?
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:30
Please answers in English....
otherwise no bother.....

Papierversnipperaarvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:31
Pic's?
shmoopyvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:31
Je zit op een Nederlands forum, dude.
TheSwooshdockSaintsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:32
hij weet wel goed het juiste forum te vinden zonder nederlands te kunnen lezen
N.ickavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:32
This is Fok forum , not Fuck forum
Godtjevrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:33
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:31 schreef shmoopy het volgende:
Je zit op een Nederlands forum, dude.
Dat kon je misshien beter in het engels doen.
Rammstinovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:33
Zullen we over hem roddelen, hij heeft het tog niet door!!
zhe-devilllvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:34
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:30 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
Please answers in English....
otherwise no bother.....

Wat zegtie nauw?
Anders geen botur?
Snapperniksvannie
Godtjevrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:34
Hello

Is she from russia or poland?
They have special websites
zhe-devilllvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:34
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:33 schreef Rammstino het volgende:
Zullen we over hem roddelen, hij heeft het tog niet door!!
Yeah i like that!!!!!!!
shmoopyvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:34
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:33 schreef Godlike02 het volgende:

[..]

Dat kon je misshien beter in het engels doen.
Hij heeft bij z'n registratie ook Nederlands kunnen lezen.
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:35
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
TheSwooshdockSaintsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:37
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:34 schreef zhe-devilll het volgende:

[..]

Wat zegtie nauw?
Anders geen botur?
Snapperniksvannie
nee mensen van jouw leeftijd hebben dat engelse gedeelte niet meegekregen
zhe-devilllvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:37
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
Ow How sneu
Sandervrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:37
joe doe tat. End lern dutch. After al we speek enklish?!?!?
Karinavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:37
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
Uh hoe weet hij dat nou, hij kon het toch niet lezen.
zhe-devilllvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:38
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:37 schreef TheSwooshdockSaints het volgende:

[..]

nee mensen van jouw leeftijd hebben dat engelse gedeelte niet meegekregen
More than you think stupie
TheSwooshdockSaintsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:39
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:37 schreef Karina het volgende:

[..]

Uh hoe weet hij dat nou, hij kon het toch niet lezen.
als hij het niet kan lezen heeft hij er ook niet heel veel hulp aan he helder licht
Hari-Bovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:39


slotje
TheSwooshdockSaintsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:39
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:38 schreef zhe-devilll het volgende:

[..]

More than you think stupie
N.ickavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:40
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
Please stay , i'd like to chat with you
Papierversnipperaarvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:42
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
NEEEEEEEEEEEE! Laat ons niet alleen!!!!
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:43
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:40 schreef N.icka het volgende:

[..]

Please stay , i'd like to chat with you
I already started on an English forum... somebody advized me FOK.... but i am sorry i went to this unpolite place.
But thanks that out of 25 posts there is 1 thats normal and in English.
Godtjevrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:44
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:43 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

I already started on an English forum... somebody advized me FOK.... but i am sorry i went to this unpolite place.
But thanks that out of 25 posts there is 1 thats normal and in English.
Who doet dat now weer?
N.ickavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:46
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:43 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

I already started on an English forum... somebody advized me FOK.... but i am sorry i went to this unpolite place.
But thanks that out of 25 posts there is 1 thats normal and in English.
Does your girlfriend know , you're chatting with girls?
Hari-Bovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:48
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else

Don't leave me aloooooooooooonnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!
N.ickavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:49
Ah kom op zeg , help die arme jongen nou even , hij heeft het moeilijk
WallOfStarsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:49
Sorry this is funny.......

LOL
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 20:59
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:49 schreef WallOfStars het volgende:
Sorry this is funny.......

LOL
you just dont know what you are doing dude..

Let me give you a little background, then see how funny someones life can be about this subject.

One year ago i gave up my life for her, i quited my job, ended a merridge, left my son.
All i had was what fitted in my car.
Now i started a whole new life.. in another country..
And i found out about this chat shit.

So the only thing i got is this girl, but even now i am not sure thats a fact.
N.ickavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:00
You left your son????
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:02
he is 18, didnt loose contact, see him much...
but again... sooo off topic
Karinavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:02
Wat is een merridge?

@TheSwooshdockSaints zo had ik het nog niet bekeken lol
Revrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:15
Did you meet her in a chatroom?
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:22
We met 5 years ago during a "shoter game"
while playing we were chatting alot, after a while she came to Teamspeak, so we could talk by internet..
2 years ago her friend died, after that i was "sort off" her mental support, we were getting closer, after a while i started visiting, and learn to know her kids.
then this friendship became more, and we fell in love...

so now the whole FOK community knows my life.
hope it is giving me some support back.
Rammstinovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:22
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:59 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

you just dont know what you are doing dude..

Let me give you a little background, then see how funny someones life can be about this subject.

One year ago i gave up my life for her, i quited my job, ended a merridge, left my son.
All i had was what fitted in my car.
Now i started a whole new life.. in another country..
And i found out about this chat shit.

So the only thing i got is this girl, but even now i am not sure thats a fact.
Rammstinovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:23
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 21:22 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
We met 5 years ago during a "shoter game"
while playing we were chatting alot, after a while she came to Teamspeak, so we could talk by internet..
2 years ago her friend died, after that i was "sort off" her mental support, we were getting closer, after a while i started visiting, and learn to know her kids.
then this friendship became more, and we fell in love...

so now the whole FOK community knows my life.
hope it is giving me some support back.
Rammstinovrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:23
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:17 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
Hi all,

sorry this is in English.

My girlfriend is never chatting (MSN or GameChatsites) when im home.
But when im gone for a day or 2 for work, she is always chatting with other guys, and it is kind of flirting what she does.

How do i deal with this, do i just let it be, because it is a normal thing?
Do i tell her to stop the flirting part???
I dont know how far the flirting part goes, but when i bring the subject up, she is getting mad and avoid the subject.

when i am home she is never on MSN or gamechats
Wygervrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:27
Man why do you discuss it on a forum anyway? Why dont you just ask het to the man off?? In a way you are doing the same to her! Be a ''vent'' and ask her...
SuperrrTuxxxvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:30
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:32 schreef N.icka het volgende:
This is Fok forum , not Fuck forum
Wonderer67vrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:32
thanks for nothing.

to 99,7% off the posters...
Revrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:33
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 21:22 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

2 years ago her friend died, after that i was "sort off" her mental support
ik zie een patroon...
Copycatvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:35
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:35 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
well i think that this forum is not that helpfull afterall.....


nevermind, i seek somewhere else
Go to Fok.co.uk!
Silvinkavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:35
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 21:22 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:
We met 5 years ago during a "shoter game"
while playing we were chatting alot, after a while she came to Teamspeak, so we could talk by internet..
2 years ago her friend died, after that i was "sort off" her mental support, we were getting closer, after a while i started visiting, and learn to know her kids.
then this friendship became more, and we fell in love...

so now the whole FOK community knows my life.
hope it is giving me some support back.
Sorry to say, but you were already playing with fire at the time you fell in love with her. Did you overlook the risks you were taking to leave your son/country and marriage? My guess is, since you were kind of a "best friend" for her, she needed you when she sincerly needed you. But know the fun is gone, she is seeking for some flirty thingies. Because she knows what you did and that you are pretty much "alone" , she feels that you won't leave her. You have to ask yourself the question, if my girl is flirting with others.... do i like that? If the answer is yes.. well dont bother. If it's no, then quit, you already did it once, so you can do it twice
Copycatvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:37
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:59 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

you just dont know what you are doing dude..

Let me give you a little background, then see how funny someones life can be about this subject.

One year ago i gave up my life for her, i quited my job, ended a merridge, left my son.
All i had was what fitted in my car.
Now i started a whole new life.. in another country..
And i found out about this chat shit.

So the only thing i got is this girl, but even now i am not sure thats a fact.
A merridge, is that a kind of horse?
Skaaivrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:44
'merridge' !
Skaaivrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:44
Dat is dat paard uit The Bold And The Beautiful!
Revrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:45
lucy in the skaai with diamonds
Skaaivrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:47
He blauwe .
Qweavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:47


I would rape her. Best solution ever!

[ Bericht 0% gewijzigd door Qwea op 18-04-2008 21:57:03 ]
Qweavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:48
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:43 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

I already started on an English forum... somebody advized me FOK.... but i am sorry i went to this unpolite place.
But thanks that out of 25 posts there is 1 thats normal and in English.
unpolite? us?

Wel nee
Detroitvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:56
As people on Fok!forum tend to say in the relaties & psychologie sub-forum when the TS is chanceloose with regards to the girl in question: she's just not that into you!

Though I'm a sensible person and I sincerely hope that everything will come up its pootjes again for you in the near future! .
Skaaivrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 21:59
'Pootjes? Pootjes? What did you called me? POOTJES? .'
Adolecensvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 22:27
I'm very curious about the age of the GF in this story...
WallOfStarsvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 23:16
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:59 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

you just dont know what you are doing dude..

Let me give you a little background, then see how funny someones life can be about this subject.

One year ago i gave up my life for her, i quited my job, ended a merridge, left my son.
All i had was what fitted in my car.
Now i started a whole new life.. in another country..
And i found out about this chat shit.

So the only thing i got is this girl, but even now i am not sure thats a fact.
You left your wife and kid for her......

Moved to a different country and then started wondering about the chatting of your current girlfriend wich you probably met online as well.

1. You must be an American.

2. You never have anyone the only one you have is yourself.

3. That's should be an eye opener, ask her about it. nothing works without communication.

4. Good luck seems you might need it. due to facts 1,2 and her answer to 3
Copycatvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 23:21
And that, dus.
Revrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 23:22
nou hebben jullie de TS weggehunted
Silvinkavrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 23:31
Als de waarheid (te) pijnlijk voor hem is, ja jammer dan, hoe lullig ook. Maar wat voor een doefus moet je zijn, om te denken dat je je liefde kun vinden via internet, zeker als je zijn samenvatting leest over hoe ze elkaar hebben leren kennen en in welke hoedaningheid/omstandigheden.
Biekuhvrijdag 18 april 2008 @ 23:34
In the quiet words of the virgin Mary, cum again?
zhe-devilllzaterdag 19 april 2008 @ 00:16
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 20:59 schreef Wonderer67 het volgende:

[..]

you just dont know what you are doing dude..

Let me give you a little background, then see how funny someones life can be about this subject.

One year ago i gave up my life for her, i quited my job, ended a merridge, left my son.
All i had was what fitted in my car.
Now i started a whole new life.. in another country..
And i found out about this chat shit.

So the only thing i got is this girl, but even now i am not sure thats a fact.
Wacht tis een raadsel, het is een nummer ergens van....
*diepedenkrimpelhebnu*
zhe-devilllzaterdag 19 april 2008 @ 00:17
quote:
Op vrijdag 18 april 2008 21:48 schreef Qwea het volgende:

[..]

unpolite? us?

Wel nee
Wellus no nottus
right_turnzaterdag 19 april 2008 @ 00:37
OMG, ze murdert hur eks friend end then stool away TS from his wijf end now historie is repieting itself. TS is probablie alreadie dad end kant anser, dads whij he is not speaking to us aniemoor.
Rezaterdag 19 april 2008 @ 00:39
mja, TS is al gevlogen denk ik...