Met een MILF gezoend, en nu?

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Alright, long story short, I met this girl yesterday with her (she told me) just friend. They're both from Iran, but cool open minded people.

I live in Amsterdam and was just stoning away on a bench with a couple of friends, when they approached us asking for a lighter. I asked where they were from and could immidiately tell that the girl was kinda in to me. We talked, my friends eventually left and when her friend was leaving too she decided to stay. Score!

I asked her how old she was. I'd have said around 23. Keep in mind that I was sober, apart from the joint we smoked, but that didn't affect my judgemental skills at all. Anyway, she replied with 35. My jaw dropped, she looks insanely young for her age. I am 18 myself. Didn't know what was happening, but it felt like I had hit the jackpot.

We continued talking, but I eventually moved a little bit closer to her and she knew exactly what was up (I did it very gentle though). Now, this is were the interesting part begins.

See, this girl is full of crazy contradictions. She denied my kiss, so I asked her why. She told me she was queer, and I thought she meant lesbian by that. She then said no, explained me what queer was (didn't really listen, was tripping balls), and was very generous. ''So if you are very generous, why are you not kissing me then'' I told her. She said she was definitely going to, later on.

Let's skip to later on. So we walk to this dark spot somewhere, and we start having this really nice, intimate makeout session. It was pretty short, but the best I have ever had. So afterwards, we are walking back towards her bike. I asked her if she liked it. She said that she liked it very much, but was not sexually arroused by it, but wanted more. She gave me her number (I asked if I could join her with the ride towards her home, but she wouldn't) and drove of into the night. That's the part I mostly don't get, what is she trying to tell me? Is she just a tease, playing the game or am I missing something?

So I returned to my friends, who were still waiting. I only noticed when I got home this morning, that she had texted me like 1 hour when we departed ''Are you far away''? I told her I liked our evening very much and would like to see her another time, and she thought the same. She asked me if I could come today, but I refused (felt like shit), so asked her if tomorrow was right. She said that she didn't know yet, since she had to work. That was the last I've heard from her today.

Advice? Not looking for a relationship here at all, just sex.

Edit: Btw, I want to add that even though she said she wasn't in to it sexually, she definitely was. I slowly moved down her face at one point, kissing her gently, and she could barely talk.

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Op woensdag 13 juli 2016 09:33 schreef Flogging het volgende:
Ik ben ook al een MILF genoemd. Vrouwen vinden dat niet altijd even leuk. Het is maar een tip.

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Op woensdag 13 juli 2016 09:41 schreef Piet_Piraat het volgende:

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Op internet grote bek maar in het echt zijn het watjes.

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Op woensdag 13 juli 2016 12:04 schreef Flogging het volgende:

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Ik sta hier niet te stampvoeten ofzo, ik gebruik geen uitroeptekens........geef je alleen een tip. Maar ik snap de clickbait truc.

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Op woensdag 13 juli 2016 03:11 schreef Lenny77 het volgende:
Als het al echt is: je hebt haar 1 keer genegeerd (eerste bericht te laat gelezen) en de dag erna afgewezen omdat je je niet lekker voelde.
Denk je echt dat ze zit te wachten op een derde keer?
Nee, dat schip is weg.
Jammer, je had een vette kans op een leuke vrijpartij gehad...